26. Go on a retreat
*Retreat provides opportunity to re-fire.
*Try another HoneyMoon
*Check into a hotel for a weekend treat.
27. Do some massaging
*Give yourselves some back-rob.
*Massaging could be romantic if your heart is there.
28. Make phone calls
*Call your spouse from work.
*Make phone calls when just closed and on your way home.
*Call anytime of the day just to say “I love you”.
29. Go on Picnics
*Take the family out on picnic.
*Sometimes, go picnicking with your spouse only.
30. Watch movies together
*Feed your eyes with the same thing.
*Alternate your preferences.
31. Go shopping Together
*Exchange shopping ideas.
*Discover more things about each other in the market!
*Decide from home to make the shopping a fun.
32. Go to the saloon Together
*Watch the process of beautifying your spouse at the saloon.
33. Eat out Together
*Eating out occasionally removes the stress of cooking.
*Eat the most complex dishes to prepare just for a fee, at no extra costs to your marriage.
34. Bath Together
*Take your oneness to the bathroom!
35. Sleep in the same Room
*Let nothing separate you.
*Let no reason separate you.
*Get more time of closeness in the bedroom.
36. Show affection to each other
*Write notes etc.
37. Eat Together
*At least, eat one meal together daily.
*Talk over meals.
*The possibility of getting angry is minimal while on the dining table.
38. Give Compliments
*Tell your spouse how nice he/she is looking.
*Compliment her hair do.
*Notice his hair cut.
*Give compliments daily.
39. Praise your spouse in public
*Make your spouse feel great.
*Public honour is a prize.
40. Salute good efforts
*Affirm your spouse in his/her areas of strength.
*Notice and commend each right step taken by your spouse.
41. Never steal nor drink stolen waters
“Stolen waters are sweet, and bread eaten in secret is pleasant. But he knoweth not that the dead are there, and that her guests are in the depth of hell” (Prov. 9:17-18).
*There is really nothing special in the other woman/man.
*Adultery is a deception.
42. Study the Bible together
“Thy word is a lamp unto my feet and a light unto my path.” (Ps. 119:105)
*You cannot walk in the light you do not know.
43. Exchange Books
*Develop your minds together and in the same direction.
*A reader today is a leader tomorrow.
44. Stand by each Other
“… in sickness and in health…. in poverty and in riches”
*Always remember the vow.
45. Avoid wasteful spending
*Check the price if it is right.
*Also check the time if it is right.
46. Invest for the future
*Never spend everything.
*Always lay some funds aside.
*Your savings of today may be your saving grace tomorrow.
47. Diversify your investment
*Only one source of income is not right.
*Never put all your eggs in one basket.
48. Agree on a sport you can do together
“For bodily exercise profitheth little…” (I Tim. 4:8).
*Joint sporting activities have multiple benefits.
49. Be honest with each other
“Lie not one to another, seeing that ye have put off the old man with his deeds.” (Col. 3:9)
*Never lie to each other.
*Trust is a pillar in a successful marriage.
*Trust is built on truth.
50. Go on a walk, holding hands
*An evening walk is a relationship building exercise.
*Hold your spouse’s hands and stay connected.
51. Enjoy Humour
*Look for humour and have some fun.
*Laughter is a therapy.
*Don’t attempt to be serious all the time.
*Being funny is a serious business.
YOU NEED JESUS
Vitamins can only be taken by people who are alive. A relationship with God will inject eternal life into you and real life into your marriage. It’s easier for marriages to survive when both partners are in Christ.
Do you want to give your life to Christ?
Please say this prayer aloud:
“Lord Jesus, I thank you for your love to me. Thank you for dying on the cross for me. I repent from my sins today. Heavenly father, please forgive me my sins and wash me with the blood of Jesus. From today, I accept Christ as my personal Lord and Saviour. In Jesus’ name I pray (Amen).”
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